Monday, November 2, 2009

....out of marriage comes...

weddings come with alot of drama.
im skipping engagements cos
thats another whole blog by itself
here we talking the actual event and the
days preceding them...

well my niece has decided to take this giant leap
while shes just .. some young age.
i say that takes guts,
is the
most dramatically
life changing
a person makes.
i made that decision and it ended up in a D
not a bitter one or anything drastic,.
but ya im a skeptic


i believe in LOVE, and even fairytales
I think you
should take the leap when you ready, really ready
geared up
like as if you were preping for a marathon.
hmmm ya.

now we all very busy planning for this big event thats
happening on the 22nd of november
the bridal shower thats like in two weeks
the braai after
its all alot of discussions heated arguments
pacifying conversations
alot of memorable moments
all in all.
we decided,
well I suggested we make the wedding invites
POINT OF NOTE, if anyones interested,
dont make invites by yourself
we learnt the hard way.
none the less they are done and its quitely satisfying to see the
results of your efforts.
the trial "flower arragement" arrived last week and it looked

>>>>>deep breath<<<<<<<<<<<<<

like a tombstone with an overhead bridge

I would marry again
just to have the wedding day
its the nicest feeling on earth
an entire day dedicated to you.

mines was nice
on the banks of the vaal river
surrounded by all the people
that make up my life.
alot of things went wrong that day
the lady in charge of the venue
woke up drunk and was threatening
to close the gates so we cant have the
wedding there.
she didnt have waiters as arranged
she took the liberty of stirring up the
drinks herself which meant an
entire bottle of kola tonic to one jug
with a few drops of spritE!!!
cocktails hmm
no serving dishes no glasses on the tables

but thats not the memory
cause from where i sat i cried happy tears

looking around i saw my cousins
rise to the moment waiters in an instant
others drove down to pick 'n pay to organise
the serving dishes and ....
the food was lip smacking good

thats my memory...
things get messed up
plans dont go as visioned
surrounded by people who care
everything rights itself the way it should.

im happy for my niece
she has the right kinda thinking
she knows what she wants from life
and now that shes
OFFICIALY 20days away from
the big event i feel sad

to be continued


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